Love

Marwin · Post by **Marwin** » Sun Jun 26, 2011 8:45 pm

That is the real reason why i stopped with taking the medic.

I wanted to reach this girl what i love, and i was in communication with a common acquaintance. But i feel that he won`t believe me that i am telling the truth, and he won`t trust me.

I was so damn down, that it was very easy to stop.

That was the thing.

I am sorry to make all things wrong. :sniff:

Is this real love, or simply silly?

Marwin

}TCP{Coco · Post by **}TCP{Coco** » Sun Jun 26, 2011 9:26 pm

Marwin wrote:I wanted to reach this girl what i love, and i was in communication with a common acquaintance. But i feel that he won`t believe me that i am telling the truth, and he won`t trust me.

I'm sorry, but I don't understand this. If you wanted to reach her, why did you stop taking the meds? I don't see the link between both. And what is it that your acquaintance won't believe you're telling the truth about?

Marwin · Post by **Marwin** » Sun Jul 03, 2011 11:58 am

Thats right Coco, but i got an answer, now is the question of the trust.
If i trust him then he said the true to me and the other way he said the wrong to me.

To stop the medic there were more reasons Coco.

One of it was a deep resignation.

Marwin

Ronny. · Post by **Ronny.** » Mon Jul 04, 2011 6:45 pm

hmm, love for me has always been a choice really. At least since I grew up(If i ever did, lol). When I first decide to love someone it just never end. Regardless what happends.

I think mutual understanding is very importand in a relationship tho, Understanding each others behaviors, feelings etc. Me personaly.. hmm seem to be too complicated really, lol. Which means very few people understand me, well honestly no one. lol

But like coco has already pointed out, just being yourself is a good idea. Many people have diffrent sides to them also, you might come off as more attractive if you show sides of yourself you rarly or ever show anyone. Showing her trust and respect that way. But realy tho, in the end. Just remember to be true to yourself

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}TCP{Marcin.B.BlackT32 · Fri Jul 08, 2011 9:06 pm

Yeah, you're right. I guess to have someone is to be good pal for that person at first... true feeling of love will come later.
I started some kind of first relantionship back in few years ago... through the internet. The most stupid thing I could ever do, but I guess it could look serious if we'd ever met. Before I knew some other girls I have been in good relationship with, but usually some "turn of events" didn't make relationship come to into something serious. Maybe it was also my lack of activity... I dunno.
About 1,5 year ago I accidentaly met the girl that is now a friend of mine... but that time I didn't really pay attention to her... we started to know each other seriously somewhere in September. After we months I felt she's important to me but she had someone... that's when I feel I regreted not taking care about her earlier... I guess I've never been hurt before. All in all, Im happy she's now my friend, she can tell me her worries, secrets and me likewise. Now I think its maybe good to have a friend like her... Something maybe even stronger than love.
Now I found a girl that Im in relantionship with (boyfriend - girlfriend, you know)... its just stroke me. We are true friends to ourselfes, we find a lot of thing common Like you said before, don't look for love (at least not at any cost), but when it comes... don't sit ducks, take a chance... I guess its best to not be afraid. If you're close, expres yourself. Smart women will admire your honest words.

And yeah, truth is it can hurt like hell... or even change your life in 180 degrees. Don't let it get you mad...

Yeah, it looks even... hilarious what I wrote... but I'd also felt need to express myself... wonder what you, far more experienced guys say

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}TCP{Coco · Post by **}TCP{Coco** » Fri Jul 08, 2011 10:50 pm

Sounds like you understand a lot of it already. I can just talk about myself, but for me, friendship is a very important part of a romantic relationship as well. I couldn't be together with someone who I don't fully respect and who I wouldn't share my thoughts with.

}TCP{Marcin.B.BlackT32 · Sat Jul 09, 2011 8:55 pm

Yeah... and in the same time I rushed a bit with it... and I feel regret. Even asked her to slow down, but we are cool. Nothing bad happened, maybe just too fast even for me.

@Marwin: Good luck with your relationship

. Like Ronny and Coco said, stay true to yourself.

Van · Post by **Van** » Tue Sep 13, 2011 12:01 am

It was great seeing you play on Sunday. Hope to see you more often on Sundays!

Marwin · Post by **Marwin** » Tue Sep 13, 2011 12:46 am

Van wrote:It was great seeing you play on Sunday. Hope to see you more often on Sundays!

Ty Van for this reply!

I will show up sometimes thats true, hope i can be there.

Love ya!
<3

Marwin

The girl i want to reach is gone her own way, but she showed me some things like this:
- nobody can force somebody`s hand,
- how important family is for me,
- how important true friends are on this world
- how helpless and sad we are sometimes even i thought i am strong, but if i am 10 times stronger as not it will not help if such things happen.....

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